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The Problem with Porn

My problem with porn is not religious or ethical. I realize it portrays unrealistic, objectification of females and violence. Most porn is produced by men for men and there within lies the problem.

My problem with porn is it has become the most widespread sex education we have. That would be ok if it showed real people making love but it does not because that does not produce good camera angles. The sex men are learning from porn is actually how to make sex look good.  Not how to please their partner.

I have yet to met a woman who can tell me she enjoys a facial, yet that is the big money shot. During candid conversation women make fun of the “rapid rider”.  Yet he shows up in the pornos along with “the plunger” whose main goal appears to be to hitting the cervix. In western culture men are apt to lift the women’s legs up while in a missionary position.  That reduces her ability to move with her partner and maneuver her clitoris so that she can orgasm. That is truly the definition of sex for men.

Anal sex is another version of sex for men. Woman’s clitoris is usually not at all engaged in that position and all the emphasis is on a tight squeeze for the men. Yes, there are women who have learned to like it.  There are couples who have found a way to stimulate the clitoris so it becomes a pleasurable activity for the women as well but not many.

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